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5 Foreplay Tips for Great Sex – For Men

Great Sex For Men

The most important part of  better sex for women is actually what goes on before penetration, also known as foreplay. Yet men are 'wired' to skip over this and go for penetration which is, for them, the main event. Here are five foreplay tips to help men be great lovers:

  1. Treat her whole body as a sex organ. For men, the focus of sexual pleasure is the penis, and probably 90% of their sexual pleasure comes from stimulation in just that one area. Women are totally different; their whole body responds to stimulation and generates sexual excitement. In fact, failing to arouse a woman's entire body is a sure fire way of making her sexual experience lacking in pleasure, even unpleasant. Explore all the parts of a woman's body before you even think about her genitals. She will actually warm up much more quickly, and to a higher level.
  2. Make love to her mind first. Women are primarily driven by emotion, so if you can induce a strong emotional state in a woman you are just a short way from creating great sex for men for her. Stimulate her mind and emotions by making her laugh. Alternatively, take her to a very emotional movie or tell her a moving story about yourself. When you understand that a woman is driven by emotion, you will cease to try to appeal to her on a logical level. It also explains why you can observe a couple who 'logically' should not be together, but who seem to have a great attraction for each other; the woman finds that emotion that the man manages to bring out in her to be magnetic, even if on a logical level she knows that the relationship is unsuitable. Play to a woman's emotion in a good way!
  3. Go slow. For men, sex is about achieving a goal (ejaculation). This means that men tend to focus on the end result. and rush to achieve it without too much concern for what happens along the way! For women it is very different; the journey is just as important – often more important – than the orgasm (this is why women don't necessarily need to climax to have a very satisfying sexual experience). In fact, very often a woman's ability to achieve an orgasm at all (let alone a satisfying one) is entirely dependent on the quality and slow pace of the foreplay. So take things slowly; it might seem that you get her 'there' more slowly, but it is actually the fastest route, as well as the most satisfying.
  4. The magic of a kiss. A woman's lips are intensely sensitive. In fact, with the right kiss a woman can orgasm from just that alone. To be a great kisser learn to be sensitive to her responses to your kisses. Try to mirror the way she kisses you. And be gentle. Explore her lips with yours. Try different movements and pressures. You will soon know from her reactions what is working and what isn't.
  5. Start at the top – or bottom. When you start touching her, begin with the top of her head or the bottom of her feet, and work your way in from there. Explore all her sensitive areas! You might be amazed just how turned on a woman can get from touching her in what seems to be the most unlikely of places. Experiment and remember the golden rule – take it slow.

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